July 8th, 2010 by Admin

If you observe, there are a lot of male friends around you who are single, even though their age is appropriate to be a husband. Though, come to think they’ve got a beautiful girlfriend, a job that supports the future, but why did they postpone the wedding? Apparently this is the reason …

Phantom of freedom puller
Can not be denied if he sometimes felt horrified by the ‘marriage’. Thinking about marriage, they are like haunted by ‘the specter pullers freedom’ in which they would not be able to hangout with the male friends, coming home drunk late morning, spend a lot of money just to modify a car, or do things that smell of other men .

Afraid as he can not make his spouse happy
Men are creatures who do not believe themselves more easily than women. If you can not trust yourself because you’re chubby cheeks, maybe you can trick it with the shading on the cheeks. But if you’re feeling insecure and fearful can not be happy you both materially and spiritually, he will be so frightened themselves, and do not dare step into the gate of the wedding. If this happens to your partner, then you should be patient. You must be assured that you will remain faithful with him, and work together for the sake of happiness together. It will not be easy, especially when this affair because the material is being trendy. And of course, this makes men more hesitant to get married.

Not ready to have kids
Maybe he is the type of loving and likes children, but not necessarily he was ready to have his own kids. Especially with the busy life that is dense enough, and he often wants to own, make him think twice about your proposal.

Still want to pursue a career
Sometimes he also thinks, if he is married now how about her career? They may feel afraid that after marriage ability and their achievement even go down, but to form a family, the material is very important. So, the man thought to delay marriage until they feel confident in material things and what they want already can they achieve.

Not sure with his spouse
If your loved one never mentioned the marriage, he might not feel confident in you. As a lover, he can accept you, but as a wife, it looks like he needs time to reconsider. But do not be discouraged trigger, in general, men just afraid that if they were not happy when she got married, so they need some time to convince her feelings.